HEALTH AND SPIRITUAL REASONS SEX SHOULD WAIT TILL MARRIAGE: PART 3

Glory to God in the highest for the opportunity He granted me write and the grace He gave you to read from part one to this final part. When I started this series, I got some few feedbacks that it seems I am writing from my religious exposure and ideas, well, God never change, His principles remain the same whether men are willing or not. This is actually not about religion but the truth, trust me. As long as you believe in God's existence, you should read...I am going to reveal more mysteries today about sex.

Before I go further, I will like to tell you that this write up is an appeal to your subconscious mind to have a rethink about decisions as regard sex and sexual activities. This piece will also explain why extra-marital sex should also be reconsidered. We are about to go spiritual.

In my first post, I defined the word spiritual as things pertaining to the spirit of man. Things we may not understand with our ordinary understanding. Things of the spirit are mysteries, but God the maker of all understands all.

Spiritual reasons sex should wait till marriage (Bible based)

The Living Word.

Let us first understand some principles behind marriage and sex. God authored marriage, because he saw that it was not good for the man to be alone,

Well, since no other animal could match up as a helpmeet and their vaginal did not suit Adam’s penis or let’s say their physique and genetic makeup didn’t match. So God made the woman, brought her to Adam and then Adam recognized her as a woman, the flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone.

After this, God commanded them to be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth. This is a mystery. 

When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. Sex was created for mankind within the confines of marriage to be enjoyed and also to serve as a mode of worship even unto God. There is a process that should be followed by sexual intercourse, the process of leaving and cleaving. A process whereby a man leaves his parents and join his wife, this first before they become one flesh (have sex; have knowledge of each other by flesh). Many today have distorted the divine order.

Sex is very powerful in the spirit realm more than you can imagine. Sex done wrongly can destroy destiny and paralyze men, it can cause many promising star to be buried. Let’s see some points.

It's about a forbidden fruit and the devil.

1. It is a sin against God. It is a disobedience if it is not done according to the divine order. Any sexual act outside the confines of marriage is a sin (pre or extra marital). It is wisdom to flee fornication, and flee youthful lust.  You are not to play around and around until when you are about to penetrate, you are not to smooch and kiss and touch or finger or do anything that may kindle your desire and passion for sex, you are not to be in a corner with her or him if you are fleeing. Fornication and adultery is a sin to God.

2. It is a sin against your body,  you are exposing your body to danger and all kinds of diseases. This is another point that whatever happens in the spiritual affects the physical (the body).

Sex is a means to soul tie

3. Having sex outside the wall of marriage means one is forming a soul tie. Becoming one in the spirit with another person without marriage could be dangerous and could mean one will acquire the curses and demons of that person. 

It will be fairer if the person keeps only one partner, if not one will also be tying soul with others he or she is sleeping with.

3. It could serve as a trap, a trap for ungodly marriage. Imagine someone getting pregnant to the one she never wants to marry but was then forced to marry because of the pregnancy, what happens? She becomes trapped forever and to be saved only by God's grace.

4. Destiny for sale could result from sex outside the wall of marriage. Reuben, a man who once lived, was a promising young man, but he lost his destiny because of sex. He could not control his erection when he saw his father's wife. He slept with her and ended up receiving his father's curse. One powerful man like that who once lived also ignored heaven signs and laid down principles as regard marriage, he lost his destiny on the lap of a lady.

Reuben and his father's wife

5. Assess to your body is what you should guide with your life, if you make it loose, you may lose your destiny. It can turn an eagle to a chicken.

Premarital sex will open door of your life for the enemy to come in. sin practically separates one from God. Once God is out, the enemy attacks and may overcome. The devil goes about like a roaring lion, seeking who to devour. Evil covenant and curses will be strengthened and household principalities will be happy if you ever do things that make God turn His back on you.

6. Having sex outside the walls of marriage could lead to death both spiritually and physically. Spiritually because it separates one from God. A man once lived, he was a prince with good intention but could not hold his emotions and he had his way with young beautiful lady. After this, he realises he could have just married her first, so he went to her family to ask for forgiveness and her  hand in marriage. The woman's family agreed but her brothers later conspire to revenge. They destroy all the men in the kingdom of the prince and even the prince himself. The story became escalated leading to loss of many lives and properties.

The handsome prince and the beautiful lady

There's this movie from mount Zion faith ministries titled shackles, that movie established sex as a powerful instrument to enter into bondage of Satan and make a covenant with demons and evil spirits. We must be careful. Not all things in skirts are just ordinary and some penile openings could just be the mouth of a serpent. 

Shackles aren't pleasant.

I think I have made few but enough points as regards why sex should be done within the wall of marriage only.

Hmm, Somehow, I do not want to close without saying this, peradventure you are already in bondage of sexual sins and you desire freedom, all you need is Jesus. He's the only one who can give you rest. You can email me so I can lead you to Christ and then we will be praying together.

It's been a beautiful journey so far, I must confess. Glory to Almighty God. If you are blessed by this series, kindly send me a feedback. I will love to hear from you. Thanks so much.

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